Emotional Disconnection

Why Did We Stop Laughing Together as a Couple?
The Short Answer Couples usually stop laughing together not because the relationship has become fundamentally serious or broken,…

Why Do My Spouse and I Never Seem to Be Awake at the Same Time Anymore?
The Short Answer Mismatched waking hours usually come from real, practical causes, work shifts, parenting demands, or simply…

Why Do I Feel Distant From My Spouse Since They Changed Their Faith or Beliefs?
The Short Answer Feeling distant after your spouse changes their faith or core beliefs usually reflects a real…

Why Does My Spouse’s Phone Feel Like a Third Person in Our Marriage?
The Short Answer Feeling like your spouse’s phone is a third person in the marriage usually reflects a…

Why Do I Feel Like I Am Competing With My Spouse’s Job for Their Attention?
The Short Answer Feeling like you are competing with your spouse’s job usually means their attention has become…

Why Does Having Kids Make Us Feel Like Coworkers Instead of a Couple?
The Short Answer Feeling like coworkers after having kids is one of the most common shifts in marriage,…

Why Does It Feel Like My Spouse and I Are Growing at Different Speeds?
The Short Answer Feeling like you are growing at different speeds is a normal and common experience in…

Why Do I Feel Like I Have to Perform Happiness in My Marriage for Everyone Else?
The Short Answer Feeling pressure to perform happiness in your marriage usually comes from fear of judgment or…

Why Does a Long-Distance Season in Marriage Feel Harder Than It Should?
The Short Answer A long-distance season in marriage feels disproportionately hard because marriage runs on small, repeated physical…

Why Do I Feel Like My Spouse and I Are Emotionally Intimate Strangers?
The Short Answer Feeling like emotional strangers to a spouse you have lived with for years is common,…

Is It Normal to Feel Lonely on Your Anniversary or Special Occasions?
The Short Answer Feeling lonely on a day meant to celebrate your marriage is more common than people…

Why Do I Feel Like Our Marriage Is All Business and No Romance?
The Short Answer A marriage that feels all business usually means logistics have taken over the space that…
