Couples
Practical, professional guidance for married and committed couples working through the everyday friction, distance, and repair that come with sharing a life.


There is an old assumption that a commanding voice is a matter of vocal technique: deepen the tone,…

Before another person consciously registers a single word out of your mouth, their nervous system has already made…

There is a difference between a voice that is merely audible and a voice that actually lands. Sound…

Language is a tool for pointing at reality, not a substitute for it. Words can describe an experience,…

Long before a single word leaves your mouth, your body has already spoken. The set of your shoulders,…

When people say a man's words carry no weight, they usually blame the words themselves: the wrong phrasing,…

Introduction Every person moves through the world wearing a pair of glasses they did not choose and rarely…

Measuring Whether Love Is Actually Being Expressed How can a husband know whether his wife actually feels loved?…

Love When the Husband Is Struggling A husband does not stop needing love simply because he is the…

Love When the Wife Fails Marriage becomes most revealing when one spouse fails. It is relatively easy to…

Love and Faithfulness Love and faithfulness are closely connected because genuine marital love is not only about what…

Love Versus Control Love and control can sometimes look similar from the outside, especially when a person uses…
