Couples
Practical, professional guidance for married and committed couples working through the everyday friction, distance, and repair that come with sharing a life.
Is It Normal to Feel Embarrassed by Your Spouse in Public?
The Short Answer Feeling embarrassed by your spouse sometimes is common and does not automatically mean something is…
Why Do I Feel Like I Have to Earn My Spouse’s Love?
The Short Answer Feeling like you have to earn your spouse’s love often comes from old beliefs formed…
How Do You Set Boundaries With a Spouse Who Overreacts to Everything?
The Short Answer Setting boundaries with a spouse who overreacts starts with staying calm and consistent yourself, even…
Why Does My Spouse Bring Up Old Mistakes During New Arguments?
The Short Answer Bringing up old mistakes usually means those past hurts were never fully resolved, so they…
Why Do I Feel Guilty for Enjoying Time Away From My Family?
The Short Answer Enjoying time away from your family is normal and does not mean you love them…
Why Do I Feel Like My Spouse Doesn’t Really Know Me Anymore?
The Short Answer This feeling usually means you and your spouse have stopped regularly sharing your inner thoughts…
Is It Selfish to Want More Excitement in My Marriage?
The Short Answer Wanting more excitement is not selfish. It is a normal, healthy wish that many people…
Why Do Weekends Feel More Stressful Than Relaxing With My Spouse?
The Short Answer Weekends often feel stressful instead of relaxing because they are full of errands, chores, and…
Why Do I Feel Numb Instead of Sad About My Marriage Problems?
The Short Answer Feeling numb instead of sad is often a sign of emotional exhaustion, not that you…
What Should You Do When You and Your Spouse Want Different Things in Life?
The Short Answer Wanting different things does not automatically mean your marriage cannot work. Many couples successfully build…
Why Does Talking About the Future Make Me Anxious in My Marriage?
The Short Answer Anxiety about the future often comes from unresolved uncertainty, differing goals that have never been…
Why Do I Feel Like I Am Always the One Who Has to Compromise?
The Short Answer This feeling usually means compromise has become one sided over time, not that you are…