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Insecurity

Why Do I Feel Guilty for Wanting More Time to Myself in My Marriage?

The Short Answer Feeling guilty for wanting more time to yourself is a common but usually unfounded guilt,…

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Emotional Healing

Why Do I Feel Like I Cannot Be Honest About Our Marriage With Friends?

The Short Answer Feeling unable to be honest about your marriage with friends usually comes from fear of…

3 min read
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Husband and Wife

Why Does My Spouse’s Hobby Feel Like It Is Taking Priority Over Me?

The Short Answer A spouse’s hobby feeling like it is taking priority over you usually points to a…

3 min read
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Emotional Neglect

Why Do I Feel Alone When My Spouse Is Sick or Struggling?

The Short Answer Feeling alone when your spouse is sick or struggling is a common and understandable response,…

4 min read
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Insecurity

Why Am I Afraid My Marriage Will End Up Like My Parents’?

The Short Answer Fearing your marriage will end up like your parents’ is a common and understandable worry,…

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Communication Problems

Why Does My Spouse’s Phone Feel Like a Third Person in Our Marriage?

The Short Answer Feeling like your spouse’s phone is a third person in the marriage usually reflects a…

3 min read
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Communication & Voice

Why Do I Feel Like I Am Always the One Who Initiates Affection?

The Short Answer Always being the one who initiates affection usually reflects a difference in how each partner…

3 min read
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Emotional Disconnection

Why Do I Feel Like I Am Competing With My Spouse’s Job for Their Attention?

The Short Answer Feeling like you are competing with your spouse’s job usually means their attention has become…

3 min read
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Insecurity

Why Do I Feel Unattractive to My Spouse Even When They Say I Am Not?

The Short Answer Feeling unattractive despite genuine reassurance from your spouse usually has more to do with your…

3 min read
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Communication Problems

Why Do My Spouse and I Want Sex at Completely Different Times?

The Short Answer Wanting sex at different times of day is an extremely common mismatch, and it is…

4 min read
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