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Practical, applied knowledge for understanding and working through relationship and marriage problems.


Why Do I Feel Guilty for Wanting More Time to Myself in My Marriage?
The Short Answer Feeling guilty for wanting more time to yourself is a common but usually unfounded guilt,…

Why Do I Feel Like I Cannot Be Honest About Our Marriage With Friends?
The Short Answer Feeling unable to be honest about your marriage with friends usually comes from fear of…

Why Does My Spouse’s Hobby Feel Like It Is Taking Priority Over Me?
The Short Answer A spouse’s hobby feeling like it is taking priority over you usually points to a…

Why Do I Feel Alone When My Spouse Is Sick or Struggling?
The Short Answer Feeling alone when your spouse is sick or struggling is a common and understandable response,…

Why Am I Afraid My Marriage Will End Up Like My Parents’?
The Short Answer Fearing your marriage will end up like your parents’ is a common and understandable worry,…

Why Does My Spouse’s Phone Feel Like a Third Person in Our Marriage?
The Short Answer Feeling like your spouse’s phone is a third person in the marriage usually reflects a…

Why Do I Feel Like I Am Always the One Who Initiates Affection?
The Short Answer Always being the one who initiates affection usually reflects a difference in how each partner…

Why Do I Feel Like I Am Competing With My Spouse’s Job for Their Attention?
The Short Answer Feeling like you are competing with your spouse’s job usually means their attention has become…

Why Do I Feel Unattractive to My Spouse Even When They Say I Am Not?
The Short Answer Feeling unattractive despite genuine reassurance from your spouse usually has more to do with your…

Why Do My Spouse and I Want Sex at Completely Different Times?
The Short Answer Wanting sex at different times of day is an extremely common mismatch, and it is…
