Understanding Your Partner

How Do I Know If I Still Love My Spouse?
The Short Answer Not feeling in love the way you did early on does not mean love is…

What Are the Real Signs a Marriage Is in Trouble?
The Short Answer The most reliable signs a marriage is in real trouble are not occasional arguments, differences…

Why Do I Feel So Alone Even Though I Am Married?
The Short Answer Loneliness inside a marriage is usually not about the presence or absence of another person…

Is My Marriage Over, or Are We Just Going Through a Hard Season?
The Short Answer A hard season and a marriage that is over can feel identical from the inside…

The Six Lenses: Understanding the Core Needs That Shape How People See the World
Introduction Every person moves through the world wearing a pair of glasses they did not choose and rarely…

Measuring Whether Love Is Actually Being Expressed
Measuring Whether Love Is Actually Being Expressed How can a husband know whether his wife actually feels loved?…

Love When the Wife Changes
Love When the Wife Changes How should a husband love his wife as she grows older? A husband…

Love Through Appreciation
Love Through Appreciation Love through appreciation means deliberately recognizing the value, effort, sacrifices, qualities, presence, and contributions of…

Love Through Service
Love Through Service Love through service means expressing love by willingly using your time, strength, abilities, attention, and…

Love Expressed Through Emotional Security
Love Expressed Through Emotional Security What makes a wife feel emotionally safe with her husband? Emotional safety means…

Love Expressed Through Respect
Love Expressed Through Respect Can a husband truly love his wife without respecting her? A husband may have…

Love Expressed Through Communication
Love Expressed Through Communication How does a loving husband communicate with his wife? A loving husband communicates with…
